I came up with a new ritual on December 31st 2012. It had been a rough year, I’d come out of the comfort of my college course into the awkward, new world of university living -and as a mature student no less.
December 31st, the last day of 2012. The last day that I would be bogged down by my problems and worries about being older than the majority of the student population in my faculty.
11:30
By the light of some mangled, old candles that I had used an abused sporadically throughout 2012, I drew my tarot cards to predict my first steps into 2013.
11:45
I wrote in my diary all my troubles, fears, negative thoughts and doubts. I wrote them without reservations with one eye on the clock.
11:50
Just ten minutes until the dawning of a new year. I was excited, thrilled by the idea of a new year with a new driver at the wheel.
Me.
I sat down with just my candles burning, eyes closed to the world of 2012 and bringing forward new dreams to follow for 2013. I dreamt of settling into the routine of university living. Finishing my first real novel for a publishers eyes to devour. Nothing was off limits, anything I could imagine in those moments was possible and for 2013 I would chase and complete those dreams.
I opened my eyes to the beep of my watch, 12:01 it was January 1st 2013 and problems were locked in the past. My future was still bubbling excitedly in my mind.
Since that night, I’ve used the magic of midnight to wash away my problems. Whether its a bad day or you just want to refresh your life and start over. Whatever time of day it is follow these four simple steps to access the magic of midnight.
Step 1: Set up your room with whatever you need to help you relax, candles, music, a specific movie, it should be personal to you.
Step 2: Take a shower bringing only fresh clothes with you for after. If you’re like me, you use your pyjamas or your lounging clothes for a few days before throwing them in the wash. Get out new pyjamas or lounging clothes, no exceptions.
Step 3: With your body and clothes cleansed of any negativity, its time to clear your mind. Take out your diary or even a piece of paper, write out what you feel is wrong or upsetting you. Whether it’s as simple as missing your bus or getting caught in the rain or something much deeper, write it down just to get it out of your head.
Step 4: This is my favourite part. Put the list you just wrote aside, hide it if you worry that someone might read it but don’t lose it or throw it away. Then sit down, lay down -whatever- with your favourite book, favourite film, favourite album and enjoy that for as long as you want.
The final step is the bit where you see whether the magic has worked. Go to bed for the night. When you wake up again in the morning, look at that list, burn the list whatever you feel it right. Sometimes I look at the list and the problems of yesterday make me laugh. Sometimes I tear the list up into little pieces and let it disperse with the wind.
At the end of the day, do what feels right to you just don’t brood over the problems. Let the water from the shower wash away your tensions and the relaxation of your favourite thing clear the thoughts from your mind.
Happy new week 🙂